what it is to be chinese:
1. to only talk about how bad something is and never about what is good.
2. to compare with the next person what he/she has and to put him/her down when the opportunity arises.
3. to only fraternise with other chinese people which ever part of the world you may be.
4. there is no way that your parents will let you forget how much they had to sacrifice bringing you up.
5. there is no way you can avoid paying them back for the above.